{"id":10479,"date":"2021-12-20T08:20:08","date_gmt":"2021-12-20T16:20:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=10479"},"modified":"2021-12-20T08:17:27","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T16:17:27","slug":"when-today-is-a-long-time-ago","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=10479","title":{"rendered":"CHRISTMAS MEMORIES AND A GIN FIZZ"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Suzanne Sparrow Watson<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=10487\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10487\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-10487\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Chruchill-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"217\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Chruchill-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Chruchill-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Chruchill-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Chruchill-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Chruchill.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 217px) 100vw, 217px\" \/><\/a>In the musical, &#8220;Carousel&#8221;, a young couple sing a song about their future, when they can look back on a life well lived.\u00a0 The song contains one of my favorite phrases:\u00a0 <strong>&#8220;When today is a long time ago.&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong> That phrase perfectly summarizes the sentiment of Christmas for me.\u00a0 The holiday season by its very nature brings forth sentimentality and remembrance of Christmases past.\u00a0 As usual, Winston Churchill phrased it perfectly when he said, &#8220;<strong>Christmas is a season not only of rejoicing, but of reflection.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=10492\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10492\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-10492\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Christmas-1972-300x188.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"188\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Christmas-1972-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Christmas-1972.jpg 711w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;ve experienced many good Christmas celebrations, including watching <strong>grandchildren&#8217;s faces light up on Christmas morning<\/strong> when they see, <em>for a fact,<\/em> the existence of Santa.\u00a0 But the most sentimental memories harken back to days long ago.\u00a0 There are three Christmases that stand out for me, in part because, even at the time, I knew that one day I would look back on them with a special fondness.\u00a0 The first was in 1971, when, as the photo clearly illustrates, my brothers and I were a lot younger.\u00a0 But that Christmas was special because <strong>our brother Jack and his family came home<\/strong> for the holidays.\u00a0 His job had taken him to Canada that year, so we had gone months without seeing him and his family.\u00a0 We had so much fun, finally gathered in one place again, with a renewed appreciation for being together.<\/p>\n<p>The second Christmas I remember fondly was ten years later &#8211; 1981.\u00a0 It had been an eventful decade, with some rough marital challenges, so Christmas Eve ended up being just our parents, us three kids, and Bob&#8217;s wife, Linda.\u00a0 We had a <strong>very long cocktail hour<\/strong>, followed by a delicious dinner, and then someone (I think it was Bob) suggested that we go Christmas caroling in our parents&#8217; neighborhood.\u00a0 Everyone except our mom (who was more reluctant than the rest of us to make a fool of herself) serenaded all of their friends in the area.\u00a0 I think we brought our own refreshments, and then people invited us in for more, and all I remember is <strong>Dad singing &#8220;O Come, All Ye Faithful<\/strong>&#8221; with much gusto as we wandered down the street, laughing all the way.\u00a0 Remembering that night still brings a smile to my face.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=10493\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10493\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-10493\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Pops-last-Christmas-edited-small-300x188.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"271\" height=\"170\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Pops-last-Christmas-edited-small-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Pops-last-Christmas-edited-small-768x480.jpg 768w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/Pops-last-Christmas-edited-small-1024x640.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 271px) 100vw, 271px\" \/><\/a>Finally, in 2000, I remember Christmas with <strong>sentimentality and a bit of sadness<\/strong>.\u00a0 Dad&#8217;s heart was weak, he had lost a lot of weight, and we knew his time was short.\u00a0 We gathered at Bob and Linda&#8217;s house, Pop dressed up in a green sweatsuit, just like an elf.\u00a0 Despite this rather poor photo of him, he was in his usual cheerful mood. He was very tired and early in the evening, as the rest of us gathered at the outside bar, Pop <strong>decided to take snooze<\/strong> in the family room recliner.\u00a0 When I went into the house to check on him, he was dozing, but awake enough that he took my hand, and told me how much he loved me.\u00a0 He died just four weeks later.\u00a0 Christmas has not been the same since.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=7833\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7833\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7833 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Pop-234x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"140\" height=\"179\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Pop-234x300.jpg 234w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Pop.jpg 392w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 140px) 100vw, 140px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We pay homage to him each time we&#8217;re together, re-telling stories or invoking some of his hilarious quips.\u00a0 And each Christmas we fix <strong>Pop&#8217;s Christmas Ice Cream fizz<\/strong>.\u00a0 It was one of his specialties and he made it every Christmas morning.\u00a0 It is delicious, and fattening, as all good treats should be.\u00a0 Unlike Christmas cookies or pies, the fizz has the added benefit of <strong>making you feel just a little bit better<\/strong>.\u00a0 Sometimes that can come in handy on Christmas morning. So, this year we are once again sharing his recipe so that you and your family might also enjoy this wonderful tradition.<\/p>\n<p>Bob and I wish you and yours a <strong>very Merry Christmas<\/strong>.\u00a0 Many of you will be able to gather together again this year and that alone makes it a Christmas worth remembering, when Christmas 2021 is a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>POP\u2019S CHRISTMAS ICE CREAM FIZZ<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Fill a blender 1\/4 full of ice cubes<\/p>\n<p>Add 6 jiggers of gin<\/p>\n<p>Add 4 scoops of French Vanilla ice cream<\/p>\n<p>Add 1 small bottle of soda water (the size you get in a 6-pack)<\/p>\n<p>My brother Bob adds an egg, so the white adds some froth, brother Jack doesn\u2019t add an egg. \u00a0Personally, I\u2019d add it just because you can then claim it\u2019s a protein drink.<\/p>\n<p>Just blend it well and \u2013\u00a0<em>voila \u2013\u00a0<\/em>you have a concoction sure to put a positive spin on everyone and everything!<\/p>\n<p>Our mom served them in a wine glass with a dash of nutmeg. \u00a0As we got older, we would conspire with Pop and ditch the wine glass for a chilled beer mug from the freezer. 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