{"id":11441,"date":"2023-01-09T07:55:00","date_gmt":"2023-01-09T15:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=11441"},"modified":"2023-01-09T07:53:26","modified_gmt":"2023-01-09T15:53:26","slug":"i-resolve-to-dissolve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=11441","title":{"rendered":"I RESOLVE TO DISSOLVE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Suzanne Sparrow Watson<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=11446\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-11446\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-11446 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/scale-300x231.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"185\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/scale-300x231.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/scale.jpg 675w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re like me, you&#8217;re <strong>avoiding the scale<\/strong> this week. All of the eating and drinking over the holidays has taken its toll on my hips.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t need a scale to tell me that &#8211; my zipper does a fine job of letting me know I&#8217;ve overindulged.\u00a0 I always make an attempt to form resolutions at the beginning of the year, a time when I feel particularly guilty about my mental and physical state.\u00a0 Most years the ink isn&#8217;t dry on the paper I&#8217;ve written them on before I&#8217;ve broken one.\u00a0 I thought this was true for everyone.\u00a0 But John C. Norcross, a professor of psychology at the University of Scranton has researched New Year&#8217;s resolutions and finds that contrary to popular belief, a fair number of <strong>people actually do stick to their good intentions<\/strong>.\u00a0 In fact, in a study he conducted of people who wanted to change a behavior, he discovered that more than 40% of those with resolutions stuck with them, while only 4% of the group who didn&#8217;t make a resolution achieved the behavioral changes they had in mind.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=11445\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-11445\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-11445\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/reading-300x203.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"245\" height=\"166\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/reading-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/reading-1024x693.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/reading-768x520.jpg 768w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/reading-1536x1039.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/reading-2048x1385.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 245px) 100vw, 245px\" \/><\/a>In a larger study in Sweden a professor learned that <em>how<\/em> New Year\u2019s resolutions were framed helped determine how effective they were. For example, if you want to spend less time on your phone, you have a better chance if you commit to reading a book than if you delete Instagram.\u00a0 He discovered that starting a <strong>new activity is &#8220;stickier&#8221; than quitting an old one.<\/strong> The new activity quickly transforms from a chore to a habit. The upshot of both studies was that if we want to keep a resolution longer than say, January 10th, it needs to be specific and realistic.\u00a0 One person vowed to begin flossing his teeth every day and a year later he was still on track.\u00a0 That makes me wonder what took him so long to perform this <strong>basic hygiene task<\/strong>, but as with all resolutions, we shouldn&#8217;t judge.\u00a0 Besides, I&#8217;m sure this guy&#8217;s dentist was thrilled so actually he made two people happy that year.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=11449\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-11449\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-11449\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/candy-crush-300x241.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"202\" height=\"162\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/candy-crush-300x241.webp 300w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/candy-crush-1024x822.webp 1024w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/candy-crush-768x616.webp 768w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/candy-crush-1536x1233.webp 1536w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/candy-crush.webp 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 202px) 100vw, 202px\" \/><\/a>A software developer based in Australia built an app called <strong>Streaks<\/strong>, a to-do list that functions a bit like a game. When users assign themselves daily tasks, they suddenly feel an urge to complete them: they want to extend their streaks. I get it.\u00a0 I do the same thing with my Fitbit app &#8211; trying to extend the number of days I do <strong>at least 10,000 steps a day<\/strong>.\u00a0 Two years ago, I was up to 246 days but then had to have some minor surgery.\u00a0 It was not a big deal, but just enough that I couldn&#8217;t exercise for a day.\u00a0 Since then, I&#8217;ve gotten to 109 days and then broken it again.\u00a0 I think my streak on Candy Crush is now greater than my step goal.<\/p>\n<p>This year I&#8217;ve resolved to get my walking streak up again &#8211; perhaps I&#8217;ll <strong>accomplish it every day<\/strong> this year.\u00a0 Or not.\u00a0 The only thing I can really commit to is eating cake once a month, watching dog videos, and binging programs on Britbox.\u00a0 You can <strong>hold me accountable<\/strong> for those last three and I&#8217;ll report back next January.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Suzanne Sparrow Watson If you&#8217;re like me, you&#8217;re avoiding the scale this week. All of the eating and drinking over the holidays has taken its toll on my hips.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t need a scale to tell me that &#8211; &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=11441\">read more<span class=\"meta-nav\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":11447,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[4005,2031,4006,4002,4003,502,4004],"class_list":["post-11441","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion","tag-000-steps-a-day","tag-candy-crush","tag-good-intentions","tag-how-to-make-sucessful-resolutions","tag-losing-weight","tag-new-years-resolutions","tag-walking-10"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/new-year-resolution-list.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p31aN0-2Yx","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11441","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11441"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11441\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11452,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11441\/revisions\/11452"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11447"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11441"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11441"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11441"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}