{"id":3400,"date":"2014-11-17T05:00:52","date_gmt":"2014-11-17T13:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=3400"},"modified":"2014-11-15T11:39:08","modified_gmt":"2014-11-15T19:39:08","slug":"gratitude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=3400","title":{"rendered":"GRATITUDE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Suzanne Sparrow Watson<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Gratitude.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3406\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Gratitude-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Gratitude\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>It&#8217;s getting to be that time of year &#8230; when we blow right past<strong> Thanksgiving<\/strong> and start hanging the Christmas or Hanukkah lights. Traditionally, of course, before <strong>Target and Walmart<\/strong> took over the holidays, Fall was a time for people to <strong>take stock of their lives<\/strong> and give thanks for their blessings. \u00a0A friend recently told me about a holiday tradition that I thought it was quite ingenious: \u00a0at every holiday dinner each person must say what they are grateful for, using the first letter to spell out the holiday. \u00a0So in other words, their dinner gets a lot colder at Thanksgiving than Easter. \u00a0I never was a faithful viewer of the <strong>&#8220;Oprah&#8221;<\/strong> show but watched it enough to know that she encourages people to keep a daily journal listing everything that they are grateful for that day. Heck, I can&#8217;t do anything <em>every\u00a0<\/em>day except brush my teeth and eat, so keeping a Grateful Diary is out of the question. \u00a0The concept, however, is intriguing. So this week I decided to combine the two ideas and in that spirit create a\u00a0<strong>GRATITUDE<\/strong> list for the <b>season.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>G &#8211; Girlfriends<\/strong>. \u00a0Where would I be without them? \u00a0Together we laugh, we cry, we hack our way around a golf course, and we create. \u00a0They are, in short, my sanity.<\/p>\n<p><strong>R &#8211; Relatives<\/strong>. \u00a0I have a wonderful family and I know I&#8217;m very lucky that we like <em>and<\/em> love each other. \u00a0NOT ONCE \u00a0have \u00a0we had to have police intervention at a family gathering.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3413\" style=\"width: 160px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/IMG_2771.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3413\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-3413\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/IMG_2771-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"One of my more subdued friends\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-3413\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">One of my more subdued girlfriends<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>A &#8211; Alan<\/strong>, my husband. \u00a0He gets me through good times and bad &#8230; and loves me even when I don&#8217;t have any make-up on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T &#8211; Tea.<\/strong> \u00a0Sometimes there is just nothing like a good &#8220;cuppa&#8221; to get me through the day. \u00a0And since I discovered FOAM at Whole Foods, it&#8217;s even better with that piled on top.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I &#8211; Inspiration<\/strong>. \u00a0I am surrounded by very imaginative women who are artistic and talented in ways I never will be. \u00a0But they inspire me to improve whatever I am doing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T &#8211; Time<\/strong>. \u00a0Somehow it seems I never have enough of it. \u00a0How did I ever<em> work<\/em>? Now I love it when an appointment gets cancelled. \u00a0There is nothing like the gift of\u00a0TIME !<\/p>\n<p><strong>U &#8211; Unburdened.<\/strong> \u00a0As I&#8217;ve gotten older I no longer feel like I &#8220;have&#8221; to do stuff. \u00a0I now say &#8220;no&#8221; when I feel like it. \u00a0This is probably why older people are deemed &#8220;cranky&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D &#8211; Dash the Wonder Dog<\/strong>. \u00a0Duh.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3404\" style=\"width: 160px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/2014-07-03-16.01.16-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3404\" class=\"wp-image-3404 size-thumbnail\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/2014-07-03-16.01.16-1-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Dash, The Wonder Dog\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-3404\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Dash, The Wonder Dog<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>E &#8211; Elusiveness<\/strong>. \u00a0I am a literal thinker (I&#8217;ve taken the test on Facebook to confirm this) but I love that big parts of my life are elusive. \u00a0When you think you no longer need to try new things &#8211; and fail &#8211; life becomes too predictable. \u00a0It&#8217;s always good to have something beyond your grasp &#8211; like losing 10 pounds.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s my list for this year. \u00a0Next year it could be something entirely different although I suspect that, with good behavior, \u00a0Alan and Dash will be on it. Although Dash really is the only <strong>&#8220;shoe-in&#8221;<\/strong>. \u00a0 \u00a0As word games go, I thought this was a good exercise to go through. \u00a0I may even try the holiday version for Thanksgiving (family members, be warned!). \u00a0I still don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll ever be disciplined enough to do a daily <strong>Gratitude Diary<\/strong>, but it sure feels good to stop once in a while to take stock in all of the things, and especially the <strong>friends<\/strong>, that make life good.<\/p>\n<p>Wishing you and yours a very <strong>Happy Thanksgiving<\/strong>. \u00a0As for me? \u00a0I&#8217;m off to think of a word that starts with &#8220;T&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Suzanne Sparrow Watson It&#8217;s getting to be that time of year &#8230; when we blow right past Thanksgiving and start hanging the Christmas or Hanukkah lights. 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