{"id":3606,"date":"2015-01-12T05:00:48","date_gmt":"2015-01-12T13:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=3606"},"modified":"2015-01-11T11:42:35","modified_gmt":"2015-01-11T19:42:35","slug":"the-memory-jar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=3606","title":{"rendered":"THE MEMORY JAR"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Suzanne Sparrow Watson<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3609\" style=\"width: 160px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/jogger.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3609\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-3609\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/jogger-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Watch out!  They're everywhere this month.\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-3609\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Watch out! They&#8217;re everywhere this month.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>So, here we are at the <strong>beginning of another year.<\/strong> \u00a0You might expect me to write about my new year&#8217;s resolutions or, like last year, what I <em>won&#8217;t<\/em> do this year. \u00a0Apparently there are a lot of people who <em>have\u00a0<\/em><strong>made resolutions<\/strong> because just last week on the way to work I saw THREE joggers on a street that has been devoid of all human movement for a year. And my husband reported that our <strong>gym has been packed<\/strong> all week. \u00a0I&#8217;m taking his word for it and steering clear. \u00a0After all, it&#8217;s flu season and who knows what I could pick up in a gym. \u00a0Sitting on the sofa<strong> eating Doritos<\/strong> seems a whole lot healthier when you really think about it. \u00a0So while the rest of the world is working diligently on their new year&#8217;s tasks, I&#8217;ve decided that I&#8217;m done with resolutions. I&#8217;ve finally come to accept that I&#8217;m <strong>not going to keep any of them<\/strong> so I&#8217;m saving myself the trouble this year by skipping the whole process. \u00a0Sure, I could resolve to <strong>drink wine and eat chocolate<\/strong> but that seems like cheating the whole system. \u00a0Still, it seemed strange to start a new year without\u00a0<em>any\u00a0<\/em> thought to how I might mark it. \u00a0And then I stumbled on the <strong>&#8220;Memory Jar&#8221;<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, I don&#8217;t remember where I read about the &#8220;Memory Jar&#8221; because, well, it was last week and I&#8217;m at an age where I can&#8217;t remember if I ate dinner last night. \u00a0The concept of it is to remember all of the important, and <strong>not so important<\/strong>, events of a year. \u00a0Then, on December 31, when you say <strong>&#8220;Gee, what in the heck happened to 2015?&#8221;<\/strong>, you can go to the jar and remind yourself. \u00a0In other words, instead of actually jogging this year, you will be figuring out a way to jog your memory instead. \u00a0 So for those of you who share my memory challenges, here&#8217;s how you can create your own <b>Memory Jar 2015.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>First, let&#8217;s be clear that this is NOT a device to <strong>remember that you got married,<\/strong> had grandchildren or any other major life event. \u00a0If you&#8217;re beyond remembering those highlights perhaps rather than reading the rest of this blog your time might be better spent <strong>investigating &#8220;homes&#8221;<\/strong>. \u00a0We&#8217;re just going to assume that you&#8217;ll remember the BIG stuff. \u00a0The Memory Jar is for all of the<strong> little things that happen<\/strong> that tend to be forgotten as the weeks and months go by. Although, frankly, it&#8217;s YOUR jar so <strong>far be it from me<\/strong> to tell you what to put in it.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3608\" style=\"width: 160px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/memory-jar.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3608\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-3608\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/memory-jar-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"A colorful Memory Jar\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-3608\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A colorful Memory Jar<\/p><\/div>\n<p>You&#8217;ll want to find a fairly big jar &#8211; a year can be a long time and you don&#8217;t want to run out of room. \u00a0An <strong>empty container from Costco<\/strong> might be just the ticket. \u00a0You can decorate it or not, but you at least should label it &#8220;Memory Jar&#8221; so that <strong>no one uses it for a urine sample<\/strong> before you can fill it up. \u00a0Then the fun begins. \u00a0Write down the things that <strong>make you laugh or bring tears of joy,\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0basically any moment that you don\u2019t want to forget, then put the slip of paper in your Memory Jar. \u00a0You can make note of <strong>things people said or did<\/strong> that seem memorable. \u00a0For example, grandkids are always coming up with some funny phrase. \u00a0Ours once said (after asking my husband&#8217;s age)<strong> &#8220;Gee, you&#8217;re really\u00a0<em>tall<\/em>&#8220;.<\/strong> \u00a0Of course he meant &#8220;old&#8221;. \u00a0We still laugh about it and now I wish I could remember how old he was when he said it. \u00a0If I&#8217;d had a memory jar I&#8217;d have my answer. \u00a0A memory jar is also a great place to put<strong> theater or movie tickets,<\/strong> perhaps with a notation of where you went to dinner that night or who you were with. \u00a0 Or maybe the <strong>cork from a bottle of wine<\/strong> you shared with good friends. \u00a0You can put their names, the place and the date on the cork and just slip it in the jar. \u00a0The &#8220;jar&#8221; is also a good place for a<strong> photo or newspaper clipping<\/strong> that you want to remember. \u00a0You get the idea &#8211; put anything in there that brings you joy\u00a0<em>in the moment.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Then next December 31 open up your jar, either alone or with family and friends, and<strong>\u00a0read or view each piece of paper.<\/strong> \u00a0Hopefully it will provide some good memories, laughs and maybe a tear. \u00a0In any event, you won&#8217;t have to wonder where the year went &#8211; you&#8217;ll know!<\/p>\n<p>As far as New Year&#8217;s traditions go, I&#8217;m thinking that a\u00a0<strong>Memory Jar<\/strong> sounds a whole lot better than jogging.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Suzanne Sparrow Watson So, here we are at the beginning of another year. \u00a0You might expect me to write about my new year&#8217;s resolutions or, like last year, what I won&#8217;t do this year. \u00a0Apparently there are a lot &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=3606\">read more<span class=\"meta-nav\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3608,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[1734,1733,1736,1735,1732,502],"class_list":["post-3606","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion","tag-family-memories","tag-jogging","tag-making-memories","tag-memories","tag-memory-jar","tag-new-years-resolutions"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/memory-jar.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p31aN0-Wa","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3606","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3606"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3606\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3615,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3606\/revisions\/3615"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3608"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3606"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3606"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3606"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}