{"id":7439,"date":"2018-07-09T09:00:25","date_gmt":"2018-07-09T16:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=7439"},"modified":"2018-07-09T07:16:49","modified_gmt":"2018-07-09T14:16:49","slug":"my-brother-and-i-are-related","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=7439","title":{"rendered":"WHEW! BOB REALLY IS MY BROTHER"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Suzanne Sparrow Watson<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_7444\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=7444\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7444\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7444\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7444\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/2018-06-23-17.24.33-Small-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/2018-06-23-17.24.33-Small-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/2018-06-23-17.24.33-Small-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/2018-06-23-17.24.33-Small.jpg 853w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-7444\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 Bob, me and brother Jack<\/strong><\/p><\/div>\n<p>You faithful readers may recall that I had my <strong>DNA analyzed<\/strong> by Ancestry a few months ago.\u00a0 Last week, brother Bob got the results from his Ancestry &#8220;spit&#8221; and, much to our relief, we actually <em>are<\/em> brother and sister.\u00a0 Since we like each other so much we were praying that one of us isn&#8217;t the product of mom and the milkman.\u00a0 But while our DNA proves we&#8217;re siblings, it also offered an interesting insight into how different we are.\u00a0 If you&#8217;re like me, you may have assumed that <strong>siblings would have the same exact DNA<\/strong> since they have the same parents.\u00a0 But as I explained in the blog about my test, that&#8217;s just not the case.\u00a0 As a refresher, here&#8217;s the explanation:<\/p>\n<p>According to Stanford genetic scientist, Dr. Barry Star in \u201cStanford at the Tech\u201d website, it logical to assume that brothers and sisters should have the same ancestry background since they both got half their DNA from mom and half from dad. But DNA isn\u2019t passed down from generation to generation <strong>in a single block<\/strong>. Not every child gets the same 50% of mom\u2019s DNA and 50% of dad\u2019s DNA, unless they are identical twins. So it\u2019s possible, really probable, for two siblings to have some <strong>big differences<\/strong> in their ancestry at the DNA level. Culturally they may each say they are \u201c1\/8th Danish\u201d but at the DNA level, one may have no Danish DNA at all.<\/p>\n<p>And that, dear readers, summarizes exactly the results that Bob and I got.\u00a0 While he is <strong>22% German<\/strong>, I am only 3%.\u00a0 I am 41% British but he&#8217;s only 6% Stiff Upper Lip.\u00a0 I am immensely jealous that he is <strong>36% Irish\/Scotch<\/strong>, while I&#8217;m a paltry 19%. \u00a0\u00a0 And while my DNA is 21% Scandinavian, he is just 11%.\u00a0 We also both have a smattering of French, Russian and Iberian Peninsula (which I learned while in Ireland is a result of the<strong> Spanish Armada invasion of Ireland<\/strong> in the mid-16th Century).\u00a0 In actual fact, history would tell us that our Scandinavian DNA is also due more to invading marauders in Great Britain and Ireland than to ancestors from those countries.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve researched our family tree back hundreds of years and the closest Scandahoovian relatives we have go back at least 15 generations.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_7446\" style=\"width: 290px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=7446\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7446\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7446\" class=\" wp-image-7446\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Smiling-Irish-300x168.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"280\" height=\"157\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Smiling-Irish-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Smiling-Irish.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 280px) 100vw, 280px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-7446\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 Happy Irish!!<\/strong><\/p><\/div>\n<p>Given our differences I got to wondering what part, if any, our DNA plays in our <strong>personalities.\u00a0<\/strong> Turns out, that&#8217;s a controversial topic, with scholars on both sides arguing divergent facts to prove their point.\u00a0 So I decided to Google what the <strong>generally accepted traits<\/strong> assigned to our ethnic backgrounds are to see if I could discern if our inherited cultures influence us in any way.\u00a0 Bob is mostly Irish\/Scotch &#8211; they are known for strong family values, penetrating wit and laid back lifestyles (which I think is a nice way of saying they <strong>spend a lot of time at the pub<\/strong>).\u00a0 I couldn&#8217;t describe him more accurately if I tried.\u00a0 He also has a strong German component and they are known for being punctual, efficient and well-organized.\u00a0 The study I read also said they were known for their <strong>sense of humor<\/strong>.\u00a0 Wow.\u00a0 Not sure I have met any Germans with a great sense of humor.\u00a0 Then again, Bob is one of the most humorous people I know so perhaps if we can overlook German behavior over the entire 20th Century we can find their funny bones.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_7445\" style=\"width: 212px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=7445\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7445\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7445\" class=\" wp-image-7445\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Greta-Garbo-234x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"202\" height=\"259\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Greta-Garbo-234x300.jpg 234w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/Greta-Garbo.jpg 540w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 202px) 100vw, 202px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-7445\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Greta Garbo<\/strong><\/p><\/div>\n<p>My mostly British DNA did not surprise me since we have several ancestors who came to the US directly from England.\u00a0 In fact, I&#8217;m more surprised that Bob didn&#8217;t have more British DNA.\u00a0 The British are known for <strong>good manners<\/strong>, witty sense of humor (I think it&#8217;s an acquired taste), pride of country, love of a good gin, and friendliness.\u00a0 I think that could describe me pretty well except for when I <strong>flip off weaving, texting drivers.<\/strong>\u00a0 Not sure all my British great-grandparents would approve of that.\u00a0 My Scandinavian heritage is the yin to my British yang.\u00a0 Although they also love to drink, <strong>Scandinavians are not social<\/strong>, they are in love with &#8220;middle of the road&#8221; for any decision and their home is their temple.\u00a0 They are perhaps best exemplified by Greta Garbo&#8217;s quote, &#8220;I want to be alone&#8221;.\u00a0 Fits me to a &#8220;t&#8221; on any given day.\u00a0 I can be a <strong>real homebody<\/strong>, perfectly content to curl up with a book, my knitting, a good movie and, of course, Dash the Wonder Dog.<\/p>\n<p>I found our results illuminating.\u00a0 Whether DNA <strong>really makes a difference<\/strong> in our personalities may never be conclusively determined in our lifetimes but it&#8217;s fun to speculate.\u00a0 Now all we need to do is get our brother Jack to spit into a tube.\u00a0 If he comes back as our sibling at least it will let mom off the hook for any rumors about her fooling around with the milkman.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Suzanne Sparrow Watson You faithful readers may recall that I had my DNA analyzed by Ancestry a few months ago.\u00a0 Last week, brother Bob got the results from his Ancestry &#8220;spit&#8221; 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