{"id":9557,"date":"2020-11-02T08:45:34","date_gmt":"2020-11-02T16:45:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=9557"},"modified":"2020-11-01T15:04:13","modified_gmt":"2020-11-01T23:04:13","slug":"our-social-dilemma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=9557","title":{"rendered":"Our Social Dilemma"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Bob Sparrow<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?attachment_id=9561\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-9561\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-9561\" src=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/facebook-thumb-down-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"231\" height=\"154\" srcset=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/facebook-thumb-down-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/facebook-thumb-down.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 231px) 100vw, 231px\" \/><\/a>To say that Suzanne\u2019s post last week affected me is a huge understatement.\u00a0 I would like to believe that anybody who has looked into <strong>what\u2019s really going on<\/strong> with our social media today has the same reaction \u2013 frickin\u2019 frightening!\u00a0 After reading the blog, I read the link, <em>The Dark Psychology of Social Networks<\/em>, watched the Netflix documentary, <em>The Social Dilemma,<\/em> as well as watched another documentary entitled, <em>The Great Hack,<\/em> which was recommended by one of our readers, Jeff Kane.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Both of the aforementioned documentaries state that \u201cwe\u201c, or rather our brains, have now <strong>passed oil as the largest commodity<\/strong> in the world. Unbeknownst to us, our minds are being harvested and sold to the highest bidder. You may say, &#8220;I don\u2019t care who knows that I like chocolate or that I like to travel to Italy&#8221;.\u00a0 But when \u201cthey\u201c start knowing everything about us &#8211; what we like and dislike, who we associate with, what we search for on Google &#8211; then \u201cthey\u201c can program what we see and ultimately what we think. Don\u2019t believe that? Have you ever asked yourself why <strong>we as a country are so divided?<\/strong> People on opposite sides of the political fence don&#8217;t understand how the &#8220;other side&#8221; can think the way they do and that&#8217;s easy to explain if you understand that virtually everything we see on social media <strong>reinforces what we already think.<\/strong> So our values, feelings, and persuasions get reinforced and the values of those who don\u2019t think like us get diminished.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<p>Even before Suzanne&#8217;s blog was published last Monday, I sent a text to my two daughters, who have young children, and told them to <strong>get educated on this phenomenon<\/strong> and to pay particular attention to the former execs at all the leading social media outlets, at the end of <em>The Social Dilemma <\/em>while the credits were rolling, answering the question,<strong> \u201cDo you let <em>your<\/em> children on social media?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We here at <em>From A Bird\u2019s Eye View<\/em> have made a decision that we are no longer going to be part of the problem, so Monday, November 23rd will be the last day we post our blog on Facebook.\u00a0 Yes, <strong>we will still be writing a new blog every Monday<\/strong>, as we have for the last 8+ years, but it will only be going to those who \u2018subscribe\u2019.\u00a0 Some one hundred and fifty odd (mostly odd) of you already do that, but we know there are a lot more of you who only read our blog on Facebook.\u00a0 So, if you\u2019re not a subscriber, <strong>we encourage you to subscribe<\/strong>, it\u2019s free and we don\u2019t want to lose you as a fan, or even a casual viewer.\u00a0 It&#8217;s easy to delete us and we\u2019ll probably go to your \u2018spam\u2019 anyway.\u00a0 There is still a place for you to comment on our blog and we are always delighted to hear from you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Bob Sparrow To say that Suzanne\u2019s post last week affected me is a huge understatement.\u00a0 I would like to believe that anybody who has looked into what\u2019s really going on with our social media today has the same reaction &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/?p=9557\">read more<span class=\"meta-nav\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9561,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9557","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-opinion"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/facebook-thumb-down.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p31aN0-2u9","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9557","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9557"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9557\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9566,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9557\/revisions\/9566"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9561"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9557"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9557"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fromabirdseyeview.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9557"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}