A Visit with a Navy Seal

by Bob Sparrow

Navy Seal Ray ‘Cash’ Care

            I recently had the pleasure of attending a presentation at the Nixon Library in Yorba Linda, given by Ray “Cash” Care, a former Navy Seal.

            I don’t have the writing ability to adequately express my admiration and gratitude to Navy Seals. Of course, I don’t have the writing ability to do a lot of things, but when it comes to Navy Seals – they have my full attention and utmost respect.   

            Let’s start with the name. It comes from SE A L  –  SEa, Air, Land as they are trained to fight in all three of these major environments. But if you thought the name came because they are like the unique marine mammals, well, that could be true too.

            Seals, the marine mammals, can drive to extreme depths (nearly 8,000 feet), they can track prey with ultra-sensitive whiskers which allow them to hunt at night, and some can hold their breath for two hours!

            The name is fitting for arguably the toughest combat team in the world.

            So let’s talk about the Navy Seals.

            First of all, becoming a Navy SEAL is very tough.  Here’s the basic training:

            It is called BUDS (Basic Underwater Demolition/SE A L) and it has three phases:

BUDS training – just ring the bell and you can go home
  1. Basic Conditioning – 8 weeks of focus on physical conditioning, water competency and teamwork. This includes what is called ‘Hell Week’ where candidates get a total of about four hours of sleep – THAT’S FOR THE WHOLE WEEK!                             
  2. Dive Phase – 8 weeks of combat diving, underwater navigation and open and closed-circuit dives
  3. Land Warfare – 9 weeks of small unit tactics, land navigation, marksmanship, rappelling and explosives

            The dropout rate for BUDS is around 80-85%!  

            When our speaker, Ray was asked what the toughest part of the training was for him, he said that, oddly enough, he was not a very good swimmer, but he had to hold his breath and swim underwater for 75 yards!

            He spent eight years as a Navy Seal and then twelve years in the CIA. He said he got to visit every ‘hell hole’ in the world during those years.

            Like most of the Navy Seals I’ve met, he is not a big, bruiser of a man; he’s 5’7” and weighs about 165 pounds. What you don’t see when you look at him is his willpower, his burning desire to succeed at whatever he does, his never give up attitude and his ability to consistently perform at a high level.

Sept. 11, 2001

            Ray now does motivational speaking. His presentation at the Nixon Library was just prior to the 25th anniversary of 9/11. And he talked about that for a bit, but interestingly enough, the focus of the presentation was on 9/12.

            Yes, 9/12. He said that that was a time when he saw the nation most united as the embodiment of the resilient American spirit where people put aside differences, flew their flags, and stood united. He contrasted that with today’s societal divisions that we see growing worse every day.

            I’ll leave you with a couple of Navy SEAL sayings:

            “The only easy day was yesterday,” representing a mindset of continuous growth and rising standards

            “Get comfortable being uncomfortable,” meaning growth happens outside your comfort zone

It’s Not the WHAT or the HOW, but . . .

by Bob Sparrow

This week, as you’re reading this, I’ll hopefully be cavorting on the island of Maui, which I’m sure you’ll hear about in a couple of weeks.  But in the meantime, I wanted to perhaps provide a public service, or maybe a private service, to those readers who made a list of New Year’s resolutions – things like losing weight, eating better, exercising, being a better ______ (fill in the blank).

I don’t typically make a list of New Year’s resolutions, and when I do, like most of us, I rarely follow through on them.  I was inspired this year to at least make a couple, by listening to Darren Hardy, who was editor of Success Magazine and is a motivational speaker, who emails a daily (Monday-Friday) video, which is only about 4 to 5 minutes long, dealing with various subjects; it is called ‘DarrenDaily’.  I’ve listened to it every weekday morning for the past five years.  I have to admit that many of the sessions are targeted to younger, climbing-the-ladder, leading-a-team, types, but there is also plenty of things for old codgers like me to digest.

While what I’m about to share with you is not revolutionary, in fact, those who do make New Year’s resolutions in some form, may already do this, but it was new to me.  By way of explanation, the following is a brief, edited version of the parable that Darren shared last week regarding goals.

Long ago a tribe from the Andes mountains plundered their rival tribe in the lowlands, stole a baby and took it to their home in the mountains.  The strongest and bravest of the lowland tribesman attempted to get the baby back but couldn’t handle the high altitude and the rugged trails up the mountain.  After days of trying, they gave up and decided to return home.  As they were leaving, they saw a woman coming down the trail with the baby on her back.  In awe, they asked the woman how she did it.  As she continued by them, she said, “It wasn’t your baby”.

The lesson: The power of your ‘WHY’ is the most important part of any goal; all of your WHATs and HOWs will be meaningless until your ‘WHYs’ are powerful enough to overcome the obstacles that you will face in getting to your goals.

After listening to this, I went back to my two resolutions and saw that I had only written down WHAT I wanted to accomplish this year and HOW, but not the WHY.  Adding the WHY definitely gave the WHAT and HOW more meaning and increased by desire to seriously try to accomplish both of my goals.

If you’re interested in getting Darren’s video publication sent to your email each weekday, you can go to DarrenDaily@darrenhardy.com and subscribe – it’s free.

Wishing you all a Happier New Year.  May you make a positive impact this year.